đđ«đ€ Christâs peace and presence be with you. You had me at lament. Itâs all about to change. Today will be my last day at my current job. Next Monday, I get to embark on an adventure with my new employer. This past Friday â Sunday, I had the pleasure of engaging in the 2026 Glory: Womenâs Gathering at Franciscan University in Steubenville, OH. The theme was Graves into Gardens. So, so appropriate and relatable for this transition taking place in my life this week. On the surface it may seem like simply a job change, but itâs much more.
My older sister asked me what changes I was most looking forward to in my new role. I replied, âLearning new aspects of HR. Being onsite with my team. Actual in person team interaction. Mostly, Brian and I will be able to spend more time together, especially discussions as we work toward developing our retirement plan.â
Brian and I worked remotely from home, for different employers. We both were then required to work in a physical office location, which after drive times and different schedules, only left us about two hours together on work night evenings, as long as neither of us had some other meeting that night. Over the past 13 months, this separation took a toll on our marriage. As Iâve told people, I like Brian too much to not want to share time with him.
The first talk Saturday morning at the Glory: Womenâs Gathering was about lament. Iâd never really thought about lament in my life. The Biblical meaning of lament is to express our deep regret, grief, and sorrow directly to God. Lament is different from complaining, which is turning away from God. During that talk, I realized I had been lamenting my relationship with Brian. In my act of lamenting with God, I was having conversations with Him and really pressing into Him for help and guidance. The speaker, Debbie Herbeck shared with us the four aspects of lament.
1) Turn to God.
2) Pour out ALL of your troubles to God.
3) Ask God boldly for help.
4) Trust God to the depths of your core. âJesus I Trust In You!â
As conferences do, each talk kept building upon the previous talks. So many great enlightenments and God moments poured forth, which are relevant to this transitional time in my life. With the intercession of the Holy Spirit, more and more Iâm learning that God really wants us to have the blessings He desires for us. The problem is that we donât trust in Him, therefore we donât ask and we especially donât ask for abundance. God is not a genie that grants you your first three spoken wishes, but God does want to bless you with all that He has set aside for you. As we talk with God and grow our relationship with Him, our hearts and minds are open to His will and desire for our lives in communion with Him. With the knowledge of His desires for us, we can then boldly ask for the abundance of what God desires for us.
Think about it for a moment, wouldnât someone that intimately knows you be able to give you more personal gifts, than a stranger you sporadically or never speak with?
Bless others and be blessed.
Shelly :0)
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